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Originally Posted by Erebos
It's not exactly a confrontation, you have paid her, for her 100% attention for those 55min, or whatever. Your perfectly entitled to get what you have paid for.
My Pdoc doesn't even bring a phone into sessions, and I am expected to have mine on silent. Personally I would be bloody furious.
A defensive T is an awful T, how are you supposed to be comfortable enough to talk to them if I have to watch what you say, how the hell would she cope with negative transference, which is sometimes part of the job?
Sounds like she needs a new career choice, and I would tell her that too.
Anyway, all the best.
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Thanks but yes she doesn't deal with negative anything well. I do have to watch what I say. when I have voiced my thoughts freely she didn't take it well. I told her that I thought she wanted me to be open. Then briefly she fixed the phone issue. Now we are back to the same. If she starts talking on the phone I think I will blow. Last session she stared at her phone a little longer than I wanted her too. I thought she was going to answer it.