I'm sorry you're feeling that way. I don't think you are stupid. Your posts here are very articulate and intelligent. I've been told that I am quick and witty but I still replay conversations in my mind and find fault with how I've responded or how I could have responded. It causes me social anxiety. Please don't be so hard on yourself. You're just fine the way you are. I always enjoy and appreciate your posts and I'm sure I would enjoy conversing with you as well. Best wishes.