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Originally Posted by Brown Owl
I don't think you expected too much from the relationship. She just doesn't sound like she has basic humanity or a sensitivity towards another's feelings.
About ruptures - my new T (since February) said that we can talk about a rupture as many times as I want. We talked about this the first session because T2 had seemed unable to discuss issues that we had.
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I think talking about it and owning our parts in the rupture is the first step to trying to repair it. I agree my t was shut off. She was numb and unemotional and at times too emotional, never a balance.
Why do you think your t2 seemed unable to discuss the issues you had?