Hi! So sorry for your situation. My former husband abandoned me in a (late) mid-life crisis after 41 years of marriage. He lost a big case (attorney), and within a month his mother died. He was very depressed. I was a basket case for 4 months after he said he wanted a divorce. This came out of nowhere and had never even been discussed. Seriously, I wanted to go to sleep and never wake up.

Now, I realize that I only had "bits and pieces" of a man; nothing whole or profound. I am on my way to live in a brand new city, am dating and in charge of my life.

Best to you. Time heals, but it is essential to give yourself everything you need.

Grandessa