I've been together with my boyfriend for almost three years and we have a son together. My boyfriend had a terrible childhood dealing with verbal, physical and sexual abuse. When we first met he was great. I knew he was into trouble when he was younger but he seemed to have been past that stage when we first started dating. Of course problems started popping up further into the relationship but nothing too serious. I discovered he's a compulsive liar. He would like about every small thing which drives me insane plus gives me trust issues. And I knew he had some anger issues. Over the last year though after having our son he just went down hill. He lost his job and now he can't seem to keep one and he wakes up angry everyday. This past winter he disappeared for a month after saying he admitted himself in the hospital (which he did for a week than had his mom picked him up who convenced him to lie to me and not come home) p.s his mom is completely nuts and did the sexual abuse to him as a child. He finally came home one day and we were trying to fix things. I guess while he was with his mom again she got drunk one night and attempted to do stuff to him again. He got a therapist and everything was going smooth until he stopped seeing his thearipist again. This last month we've been staying at my mom's and movies started disappearing . Movies that were new and we were in the middle of watching. Turns out he was selling them for money. He got kicked out and we are now currently separated. But the question is where did the money go? He hasn't had anything , hasn't bought anything and he just did a drug test and he's cleaned. When I keep asking him why he took the stuff he keeps breaking into tears saying he has no recollection of doing it. My whole family hates him now and I want to but I feel something else is going on. I can't talk to my family about it because after the last year of him lieing and disappearing they think he's just lieing again and they think he has me brainwashed. Is there any mental disorder that could be causing him to do stuff without him knowing​ or is he just being a lair. He has never stolen from us before and usually he would crack by now about a lie. I need help . I don't know what to think anymore and I want to try to get him to admit himself to the hospital.