I agree with Doh -- congratulations on surviving your family.

I also agree with Curley -- living without guilt and fear is its own reward. It may seem as if these people have everything and get away with everything, but really, what do they have? Stuff! Perhaps they are not introspective enough to look within, but I tend to believe that somewhere deep inside, they feel yukky and know they are yukky. That's why they need all the stuff -- in a desperate attempt to make themselves feel better.

Because they know that people like YOU are better-- and do not need the mere stuff to prove it.