not trying to be mean, but go back and read how you talk about your friend. wouldnt you be a little on edge if you were treated like that? sounds like youre pretty confident but its crossing the line into cocky. ever think that maybe your friend thinks youre abandoning her for your "maturity"? Hate to say it, but a truly mature person would move past those "flaws" and learn to love them for who they are. Sounds like you think youre too good for your friend. Maybe, instead of pointing out someone else's flaw you should look at your own. A lot of time when people point out the flaws of others it's because they are insecure with their own. And if youre boasting yourself that much it sounds like youre extremely insecure. Ego is a very dangerous thing. Be careful with it.