mona, I don't know what could be your T's problem but it's something. I always thought it strange that she is a T yet doesn't seem to care about her appearance. It could mean nothing or it could be a red flag. Now with these new developments, I wonder. I so much want you to have a good T!! She may be going through some health problems. I think you should ask if she's okay, that you're worried about her, without going into detail. Listen to your gut feeling! When I asked my T if her marriage was okay, I knew! We are very perceptive about out T's! I can't quite figure yours out, though. Even before this thread, I feel afraid of her. Maybe she's psychic. Maybe she's brilliant. Maybe she's sick. Maybe she's a combination. I hope you find out soon if there's something wrong and if your therapy can continue or not. Hugs!