My T thinks that he sees things in me that I don't see. I have no way to check whether it's true or not. I'm generally very self-reflective and I see my patterns quite well myself and I personally most certainly don't need anyone to help me troubleshoot or work out my goals. Mind you, I don't think these things are in any way my T's business.

When my T points something out to me then there are two possible scenarios: 1) Either I know it already myself or 2) I don't recognise it at all, in which case what he said is useless to me. He may argue that what he said has something to do with me and I for some reason just can't accept anything from him but to me it doesn't matter - if I don't recognise it as anything related to me then there is nothing I can do with these things and so they will be useless.

I do have other parts who think differently than the one who's writing now but right now I don't have access to them to say what they think about it. I just know that these other parts find the T more useful than I've described here.