Thank you guys. That's what in trying to do it's just hard. I guess I just keep hoping for what we had when we first got together. He was a hard worker, spoiled me and was the kindest guy I ever met. Now he let depression take over. As for now we aren't together everyone keeps telling me to stay away so I'm trying I just wish we could be a family together again but he needs to get help and prove he can take care of himself.