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Old Jun 20, 2017, 12:24 PM
toomanycats toomanycats is offline
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post
Just wanted to say you seem to be asking yourself the right questions...Have you not actually seen him in 5 months, or have you just not sat with him as your T? Maybe seeing him today will help give you some sort of answers/closure. It will probably take time to move on to grief, then acceptance.
It's actually only been 3 months since he (S) gave me the news that he would be moving.

He has not been my T for about 2.5 months, but I have still seen him. The last time I saw him was 2 weeks ago.

He was diagnosed with cancer 2 months ago.

I have been seeing new T (J) for just over 2 months.

So, yeah, S is moving this weekend, and then I have no idea when/if I'll see him again... he still has family in the area, and he claims that he will still be in this area multiple times per year and that we can hang out when he is here, but... idk.
Hugs from:
Elio, LonesomeTonight