I'm not a religious person at all; in fact, I'm a non-believer. From my perspective, this is the work of someone who is childish, passive-aggressive, and who may not have their own lives worked out. This type of behavior is inexcusable and unacceptable in ANY adult situation.

From a religious standpoint, you might want to consider going elsewhere for your spiritual needs, as this group might have nothing good to offer you. Read "James 1:26," and you'll see what I mean.

It's a toxic situation to abandon to the past. Best of luck.