Actually, I am f'ing sick of being left alone. Yes I am over 18, does that mean being kicked out of the house like a dog to the street? (I moved because of bad relationships.) Nobody calls to ask if I even have a job, what are my plans, what am I going to do with my life. Nobody cares nor notices if I lie in bed IN FRONT of them in their own house all day and night (mother, that is). They take it like a joke. Last time I asked the hobo supposed to be a Dad if he can call daily, he called once to ask what I have been doing, I said "nothing" and what I will do, I said "nothing" and instead of caring, he just said "well then nothing, bye" (apparently "he had nothing to talk about"). I called back and said to him "if this is normal behaviour to you dream on but I don't want you to call anymore if you're going to act like this" and he said "fine, I won't call anymore".
Mother is very similar. I asked her if I broke a leg in front of her would she ask me "so what do you want me to do about that" (like she always asks when I try to tell her something painful, she doesn't even make an effort) or would she react out of empathy. Instead of getting what I want to say, she said yes, that's what she would say.