Hi maga

Let me see if I understand what you are saying here. Is that you feel you have grown in a different direction than your friend has grown? People do that all the time. Where we grow is not always where our friends grow.

Is it possible to continue the friendship but back off of the arguments (discussions) about things that cannot be fairly discussed?

If all you are looking for is a sparring partner (and I don't mean that in a bad way) then maybe your friendship has moved to a different level and you will have to find someone else to spar with that gives you similar input as you give?

Is it also possible that at some point your friend felt hurt by something you may have said? Maybe asking her if that is the case, you may gain some insight as to why she is now reacting differently towards your discussions. For that matter, maybe there is something else going on in her life that is bothering her and it's manifesting in your discussions.

Wishing you and your friend well.


sabby