So I'm a little nervous because my mom's bday is coming up. While I am happy for her about that, I am nervous because she has an outstanding property tax with the state we used to live in. If its not paid by then, she looses the car. I don't know if they will allow her to convert her license to the state we live in now. If her license in the state we use to live in expires, I won't be able to drive either. Its nerve racking considering both our conditions and the medication we are on. I want to help her, but I feel like I should not be held responsible for fixing her problems. I also feel that if I do help her then I won't be able to do anything for me. I'm really nervous. I really have no idea what to do. Do I risk my plans for colleges by helping her in every possible way? Or do I ignore her problems and continue with everything I have going for me?