Many times when women want to break free when they have felt trapped in life they react this way. If they dont have a good strong moral value system internsl to themselves whivh basically society today has thrown out the window anyway, that direction is easy to follow because there are NO VALUES.

Getting angry at her will ONLY PUSH her away farther because it is what pushed her away from you in the first place & into the rebellion state she is in right now. With the lack of moral values thst you hold (at least for women) its no wonder her rebellion has taken on this direction.

I know when I got fed up with my H's behavior & was basically separated while trapped financially living in the same house, I could have gone either way if I didnt already have strong moral values I lived by.

All you really know are words you have read...you really DON'T KNOW exactly what your wife REALLY ACTUALLY did.....and just for your information....even if you did its NOT SOMETHING that can be used in court because all divorce unless there is physical abuse is considered to be "NO FAULT" on either side. It is considered irreconcilable differences.....if you think otherwise, you are living in the past as divorce no longer points fingers at fault unless there is actual PHYSICAL abuse involved.

Your T is right at this point without marriage counselling there is no way for your marrisge to be reconcilled. She is fighting against what was & you are desiring to go back to the way it was. She is striking out having wrong relationships while still being married & you are still striking out with anger & jealousy, exactly the things that csused her to strike out against the marrisge in the first place....so BOTH of you have a LOT OF WORK learning how to make a REAL MARRIAGE WORK.....if its even possible.