Do you know these friends from junior high and whether the story is "true"? The, "and hey for the rest of ya's/finger" did not sit well with me. I don't know how/why you split though and what the circumstances are with you now but I'd say he was hurting about something in the relationship and glad to have a reason to hurt you "back". My stepmother and I use to do that to one another though we loved one another a great deal.