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okiedokie said:
... I'm just amazed that one's heart can break in two and yet it doesn't make a sound...

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> it does make a sound....one that was heard all the way out here. personal loss and shock and numbness have made it difficult to muster any intelligent coherent replies thus the lag time for our post.

one foot in front of the other. if you can remember maybe you can try some deep breathing when it all feels too overwhelming. that's what it takes out here just to keep going through the days.....breathe in....breathe out....sigh deeply.....repeat.

please don't give up okie. you've got a crowd of ppl here carrying you in their hearts and thoughts. don't forget you've made an impact and you matter to this community. and this community will be here waiting for when you're feeling up to being here again.

kindly,
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