i called the guy yesterday and it went to his voicemail so I called today and it told me the phone number was disconnected...... Im a little worried that his mailbox was full and never answered his phone. Im thinking if he does have a specialty in BWS that he isn't very concerned with patients if this kinda thing is happening. So Im trying another guy that is actually close to me.

Something I was worried about: do you think that male Ts would be less likely to want to treat a woman with battered womans syndrome? Not because theyre less compassionate or anything, but because theyre worried about things like accusations etc... I know of men that refuse to be the only one home during a slumber party because they don't want any story or anything to get out of hand with other parents. I didn't know if male Ts would feel uncomfortable treaing a woman like me? I would hope not but you never know.

Thanks cyran0 - he truly is an amazing person. We have had our slip ups like any couple but, unlike my ex boyfriends, he isn't concerned about saving his own ***. He thinks about me before himself all the time and I really couldn't ask for a better partner for me The reason Im worried has nothing to do with him. He has never given me any kind of notice that this was happening. Its been my own experience that once I start to let my guard down guys get scared when they find out what kind of package I come with and run. You would think after 2 years I would know that he's not like that but I guess my mind is still always on alert.

Thanks guys.