I have to agree with up top.

Not to mention, you've been through so much, Fuzzy. Excuse my language, but **** those who are "disappointed". Maybe a few screws are loose in my head but enough is together for me to form the coherent thought that none of these people weigh enough in your life to matter, least of all their opinions. They couldn't see a good thing (you) in front of them because they're too caught up in their own self-induced disappointment.