after she cut off contact on mothers day .i was a bit messed up and i tried to talk about it with my T and it did not go well at all . our last session didnt go well either when trying to talk about the mother . she says i try to argue with her and make it about her when talking about the mother . she even seems to get defensive about it . last session i was getting upset and she said here we go now you are going to start feeling all bad start crying and shut down .she said it in a mocking way so that sent me into a huge panic and spiral.i was going to try and talk to her again about all she had to say and how her statements made me feel etc... but now for some reason the mother has decided to send me a card almost a moth after mothers day saying thank you for the gift and that it allowed her to go out and have a nice mothers day dinner . i dont get it and i want to talk to my T about how all this makes me feel and what is going on and so on but i feel i cant do it because of my T feelings about me when i talk about my mother .. i dont want to do find a new T i want to figure out a way to work with this .i dont know what i am doing wrong