BP!!! I have to agree with Perna on this matter.
I'm age 57, and since my divorce 11 years ago, most of the men I have met have been thru online dating sites, and OH, MY, how I regret the waste of time! It is truly like throwing a hook into the vast ocean and pulling out who knows what kind of monster....and I do mean monster!
Try being in social situations if possible. I know if you have Asbergers, then this may be a problem for you, but I can't endorse meeting the opposite sex online. It has been a nightmare for me.
I have to admit, lookng back now on all of it, that I was TOO accommodating, too desperate to be accepted, and I truly regret the time I wasted.
Patty