I'm known to do this but I'm also very secretive. If someone figures me out or can tell me things about myself that shows me how well invested they are and how much time they took out of their life to notice me. That means so much to me. Not everyone is capable or willing to figure someone out. I do expect it from my T being that I pay her to sit there and listen to me. I give her hints of how I work and things I've been known to do. I've been seeing her for five years so my expectations of her figuring me out is large. At this point if she hasn't then to me she hasn't been listening and/or doesn't care enough.