You responded positively and in kind to someone's caring for you and apparent enjoyment of your company.

That's incredibly normal. Or since we should probably avoid the word normal, it's one of the most human reactions in the world.

And she, when she felt overwhelmed and realized she might have screwed up - which has way more to with her than with you - lashed out. Again, an awfully human thing to do.

Inhuman and abnormal are the kinds of things inflicted on you when you were growing up, by a broken, defective parent. You are none of those adjectives.