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Originally Posted by Grandessa
Hi! So sorry for your situation. My former husband abandoned me in a (late) mid-life crisis after 41 years of marriage. He lost a big case (attorney), and within a month his mother died. He was very depressed. I was a basket case for 4 months after he said he wanted a divorce. This came out of nowhere and had never even been discussed. Seriously, I wanted to go to sleep and never wake up.
Now, I realize that I only had "bits and pieces" of a man; nothing whole or profound. I am on my way to live in a brand new city, am dating and in charge of my life.
Best to you. Time heals, but it is essential to give yourself everything you need.
Grandessa
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Thank you Grandessa for your encouraging post!
I really don't know where I would be today if I didn't have you guys
I cannot imagine what you went through or felt like at the time - after 41 years of marriage(!!) Who wouldn't be a basket case? It's such a shock to the 'emotional system'
It was absolutely heartening to read, above in
bold & colour. That's wonderful news! I am very happy for you. You deserve it! I wish you the very best.
I am still working on income and there may be an opportunity soon, so I am
hoping & moving on with my life.
Thanks so much for 'dropping by'