I can't deal with this much longer.
I said to her about the trouble I am having where I live at the moment, with some other girls in a rented apartment. I have some trouble with relationships with one of them, or two. I have difficulty making a bond. Last time, I cleaned the house as it was my turn and one girl insists that it is not clean and is very unsatisfied. I was complained about, too. It was definitely clean. I said this to mother and told her I have difficulty asking her what is actually the matter. Her reply was to ask the girl next time I clean if it's "clean" and if I "left something out", and that "everything will be fine". Er NO, I TOLD her that it's not actually about the cleanliness. This is the kind of advice I get from her... And she KNOWS what is really happening but purposefully misses the point when talking to me. On PURPOSE. It is best to not waste time telling her these things but then who to talk to. It's just sad that one can't talk about their biggest problems with their own parent. People are having an issue living with me (it's happened before) and she doesn't even suggest anything.
I told her once that I am going to try asking the girl what is wrong, then asked her "but what if she doesn't tell me, or doesn't tell me the truth?" She said "she will tell you". I said "what if she does NOT?" After a bit more of this rubbish answer, she said "then nothing". Oh, thanks for helping out right? So it's fine to live with someone who hates you more and more and "nothing"?
I despise her.
I don't have to ask if this is normal. I know it's ****ing crazy that your parents ignore your problems. What I'd like to ask is, what can I do about this?