Dear T,
I'm worried about how much I think about you. I have a number of close male friends and colleagues and, when i started seeing you, I didn't consider the implications of choosing a straight, male therapist around my age. I know that neither you nor I will do anything inappropriate, but I still feel like I'm infatuated with you. It feels like a threat to my marriage, even though my marriage is strong. When I start talking about this, you say nothing. You change the topic, and you seem not to acknowledge any comment I make about how much I think about you. I wonder if we can have intimacy without dependency.