(((Cyrano)))

I know how you feel. I have children too. It is very stressful because no one seems to get any self time. I can also understand your wifes side. She had been with the children all day which as you know is tiring in itself. It took some time but my husband and I worked out a schedule. We both get some free time to sit and relax. My time is after everyone is in bed. Also, maybe try doing activities that the whole family can do togeather that is relaxing. I hope this helps at least a little.