Hello all,

Please let me know what you all think about this...

I know WHY I get attached to others...

But if there was something specific that I did that 'activated' the (oh so painful) attachment bond, which brings with it all the pain in the world and unmet needs and wounds from the past, could I merely choose to do something different and prevent it from ever getting to that point?

And if so, is it as simple as setting boundaries rather than lowering the defense mechanisms and becoming vulnerable?

I am referring to therapeutic relationships, however, it could also apply to outside and in the world relations as well.

I'm interested in hearing what you all think.

Thanks,
HD7970ghz