CY,
What a tough night you've had. It seems that neither of you is appreciating what the other person is doing in this relationship. I'm sure you don't get a lot of time just for the two of you either. A fight was just waiting to happen once the tension builds up. You need to try and make some quality time for just you and wife. Find a babysitter and go play. Take that precious time for yourselves. And then find a day to take some time for you and your children. They know Daddy has to work, but they still need you. Try to remember while you're at work dealing with the idiots of this world, your wife is dealing with the children and household. While you have human contact and conversation, she has babbling baby talk most of the time. You both need to reflect on yourselves and your beautiful family. It is a partnership but doesn't have to feel so numb. If you go to church, talk to your pastor. Maybe they can give you more advice that will make it easier. *God Bless*