She is being abused. Her boss is ridiculous. He has no interest in keeping her and sets up situations that don't have to be that way... but are. One of the most insidious things about a bully, I have found, is that their behavior sets up a failure to get your job done and they control it.. so it looks like you.

That being said, she is to blame for some it. And that is why I think I am done.

I told her that she cannot be perfect for the next 10 years and the next time she messes up... he will fire her. It is only a matter of time. But she won't move.

In fact her boss got a promotion, he is Chief of his division, and he will have even more power so...

I hate to ever support a bully and her boss is a bully (and a sexist too) but she won't change.