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Old Jun 25, 2017, 07:25 AM
Maquiscat Maquiscat is offline
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I know this is a couple of month after you posted, but since I don't see this addressed here, I'll point it out.

Bisexuality has nothing to do with whether one is monogamous or not, or whether one will cheat or not. In the long run, unless one is the swinging sort, the bisexuality is actually a non issue. A great number of bisexuals in the world are also monogamous. They just have a wider selection pool for the dating/searching phase.

The real issue here is the cheating. Now from my non-professional, limited knowledge of the situation, field only by what is written here, it seems like maybe he just gave in to weakness during a time when you were sexually and emotionally unavailable. The question is how likely is it that he will cheat again? Therapy, both for your marriage and for his trauma, are probably good things. If he is bisexual, he does need to acknowledge that and own it. It doesn't stop him from being monogamous. Beside, if he is, then you two can ogle the same good looking men. Just because you're married and monogamous, doesn't mean you can't enjoy the views.