imho= In my humble opinion

(((((((((((((((((De)))))))))))))))))

I'm so very sorry for the loss of your dear uncle. You are so right though, he would want you to take care of yourself first and foremost. Physically being there is only a small part of the grieving process. While you may miss being with other family members during this time, your uncle is sitting right next to you and remembering all those wonderful times together with you. He knows you love him and will miss him. He loves you very much and that will NEVER stop.

I think wmd had a wonderful idea for you to build a fire, put the coffee pot on and just sit and remember. Cry when you need to, laugh when you need to. Try to feel the warmth from within that you and your uncle shared through the years.

Sending you healing and calming thoughts.

xoxoxo
sabby