This is another reason that I cannot get a diagnosis. My other selves seem to make people mad. So instead of understanding that I do not remember all the things that I say, my significant others just thought I was a smart-***.

My normal personality or host is very respectful of other people unless I am drunk then I can be obnoxious but it is only in an attempt to be funny. Unless I get into one of my paranoid states.

Getting loved ones and employers to understand the amnesia associated with a dissociative disorder is ninety percent of the problem!