Hi Dpm,
It is so hard when we lose someone we love. And you've had two big losses right in a row. I'm so sorry.

In 2001 my grandma, aunt and mom died. So, I can truly feel your pain. I hate it that you're having to go through this.

I don't have any great advice for you like others here. Only wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you, and that you are important to me.
Love,
Okie