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Originally Posted by Shadix
I am with you 100%. And what is most frustrating is when these people are actually well liked and there is nothing can say to counter their put downs. Also when they know how to put you down covertly by just being patronizing and you can't confront them about it without being made to look insecure. This is why being around them is so draining.
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I agree. I hate it when I am the only one who sees that someone is being arrogant or stuck up, although what I have learned is that usually doesn't last long. When that happens, most people eventually catch on sooner or later. And in terms of being patronizing, I agree that this is difficult to manage. Most people who are arrogant or stuck up can actually be nice to your face but talk crap behind your back or talk to you like you are a child. I've confronted these times of people and it would result in them saying I am paranoid or insecure.