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Originally Posted by AHeartOfRuby
Okay so I've been having trouble in the last couple months since I've had surgery. My best friend has an extremely controlling boyfriend who's emotionally unstable and he tries to drag me down with him. Not only are they friends with my emotionally abusive ex boyfriend but he talks about me behind my back to get my best friend to hang out even if she doesn't want to. She rarely ever hangs out with me anymore and I feel hurt when she doesn't talk to me about the things she does just because you know we're best friends and we don't talk but then he's her priority. I'm stuck in my house and I don't exsist anymore
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Sorry that you are going through this. If you haven't already, you may want to get out and start doing things with others, but leave the door open to the friendship too.
I went through something very similar many years ago.
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