I don't think just anyone can study to be a T and be a successful one. It takes someone who can really hear, not just listen and someone patient, who knows how tough it can be to talk. I know for me, it'seems hard to talk, sometimes due to shame, other times because my head is a whiring mess, or because I just don't have the words to describe how I feel.

A letter to her, sounds like a nice thing to do, I'm sure for good T's their work goes beyond just money.