I stayed the night at her house last night. So the guy that she had an affair with that she denies, his friend(Who also hung out with them) is still texting my wife. She is saying he was telling her about a job but am I wrong to think that is wrong? She said I am jealous and controlling and there seems to be no care in the world for her. She kept saying "I asked you to come over, I cooked for you then you keep saying all these things that are not true". I don't know what to think anymore. One day we cuddle and the next minute she doesn't want me touching her. I need to get this therapist thing set up but I know I can't change a person and the way they think. I told her nicely that I thought she drank to much and now she says sarcastically "Oh, I guess I'm a drunk now". I feel as if she will always talk to other "friends" behind my back and that she is going to live a fake secret life...I just want her to come clean so I can Atleast make an honest decision but I know she never will. She is not who she used to be and now she has this IDGAF attitude which sucks...