I used to try and explain to the woman certain things. She proved unworthy. Now I tell her only about dogs and grief. The rest simply was not worth how horrible she was when I tried. There are a good number of things that are simply not relevant to why I saw a therapist - so those are also left out. The funny thing about those things is that sometimes I mention something about them - like attending a drum healing night at my yoga place - she is like "I did not know you did ..." like she is surprised she did not know - my response is there is a lot about me you don't know - most things you don't know. Then she gets all huffy "well blah blah but I guess I don't know you" Me "yep you don't"