Working through the erotic transference you feel, Luc (and others) is supposed to lead to greater understanding of yourself and a closer relationship w/your T. I'm in the same situation right now...don't want to go through this process bc even as much as it hurts to know I can't have my T, it's better than not having these feelings for T. I'm angry w/T now, so I'm pretty sure I'm going to resist working through these feelings. What a way to get well......it's painful.