I am fed up with this too. I think I have a new diagnosis and while I am trying my best to find ways to identify harmful thinking and behaviour and turn my life around, there's people posting that their ex wives, ex bf's etc ruined their lives and they had zero role in it and there is no cure and if you see it run as fast as you can.

Just as with any diagnosis, it is up to the individual to try to make the best of it. We didn't choose to have to deal with more than the average person. It makes me glad that the people who left me have shown their true colours.

Has anyone dealt with this? One can make a choice to leave, but I don't get this mentality of kicking someone who is down already.