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Originally Posted by Bill3
Well it is quite possible that they won't accept it, even though you are trying to do the right thing.  What would that mean for you?
If they don't accept it, at least you know, and they know, that you made the effort.
How does your fiance view the situation right now?
With regard to retaliation: What sort of retaliation do you fear? And how might apologizing make retaliation more likely?

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Apologizing would let them know I'm willing to take full responsibility for my actions and let them know I'm truly sorry. Their retaliation would be possibly getting mouth and me getting defensive and if that happen I want to be able to accept it and not not get defensive back. I just want things to be ok again....