Same here. Setting so-called "boundaries" for oneself sounds to me like trying to hobble oneself, and trying to set so-called "boundaries" for other people is never necessary since healthy people do not need to be "bound"...and then trying to bind any of the others is like spitting into the wind.

The real issue? Do not let Mr./Ms. Emotions do your thinking and/or determine your actions. Choose your path for its destination and not be the depth of its rut, then walk alongside others who are actually going somewhere.