I think if youre gonna be a t yourself, you should figure out how to work thru this. And yes it has been done. Just talk about it. There is pretty much nothing you do or say that is new under the sun.

Okay, if you have a bad or incompetent t, i agree, one should run. You sometimes feel like you cant. You are probably messing up in other parts of your life then - i was, big time. So yeah, its a tough decision.

But falling in love with your t - transference - is often an expected part of the process; i wouldnt quit just because of that.