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Ummm.....I don't need a lecture on expressing myself in my own thread. I don't think suggesting rational thought is hurtful - it is like suggesting you wear a seat belt. It's a safety issue. Emotional safety.

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I wasn't trying to lecture you. Your original post stated very clearly that you weren't saying certain things and I was trying to encourage you to do so while simultaneously pointing out ways to keep it within the forums rules (your stated problem).

And no, suggesting rational thought is not in itself hurtful when done in a specific context. However your original post had an indignant tone that could be taken as hurtful when you also consider that you hadn't made it clear who or what you were talking about. The implication becomes everyone here is irrational (except you).

So whatever, I was trying to help. Now I wish I hadn't. I wont post in your thread again.

Cyran0