Dear MC,
I wish I could reach out to you about what's stressing me out right now. It's times like this that I understand why it can be better to not know much about a T's personal life... But out of respect for you and what you've been through, I'm not bringing it up. I mean, possibly, in passing, during session (I could see H mentioning it). But it feels wrong to ask you for support about this. So I won't. I'm sure you'd say I could, that it would be OK, that I shouldn't worry about you. But I do anyway.
Love you,
LT