Well there are a few options. Basically, you can go for confrontation or you can go for positive reinforcement.

With confrontation you complain about what she is doing and take it as a personal affront and demand that she stop.

With positive reinforcement you thank and compliment her on the things that you want her to be doing more of. So you might say "I really enjoyed it when we did ____ tonight." "I like spending time with you." "The best thing about our wedding was _____". In other words, you kindly inform her of what you would like to see more of.

When she tells you that she did X with her friends, you can say that you would love to do to Y or Z with her, or even X if that would be appropriate.

She might not do everything that you want her to. But I don't think that becoming upset and confronting her about spending time with her friends, taking her activities with other women personally, is going to get you what you want.