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Originally Posted by lolagrace
I think that was probably the reason your T asked you not to text. If you had called her and had a conversation with her, if you had written it out and showed it to her in session where you could talk, if you had saved it for session and let her have it there so she could respond, she probably wouldn't have minded, but lashing out by text cuts out the true dialogue and cuts off the therapy dynamic.
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She said that even if I had of text her just to say that I was struggling and could we talk or to say that I had been hurt by her response that would have been ok! I don't agree, I am not supposed to be looking after her feelings. I did that with every other t and I am not doing it with her, yes my t is human and has feelings but they are her responsibility. She got hurt but so did I. I ended up apologising to her and trying to look after her again.
I can see what you are saying Lola and it doesn't help sending by text but sometimes we are doing the best we can do in any given moment.