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Originally Posted by Out There
Maybe it is a bit of testing - maybe we do it unconsciously. I don't know what to make of this , but your own response to your own client is how I feel a T should be and what I would hope for. I feel like lashing out sometimes and I've been in a " I hate the world " mood lately so I can understand the feelings. I talked to my T this week about Janina Fisher. Trauma is so tricky to deal with. Do you have another session booked ? I hope you can sort this out.  |
I have another session next week. Trauma is so tricky and there is not one rule for everyone and everyone reacts differently to it. Maybe I expected too much from her or she from me or perhaps I projected ex t onto her!
Do you like the work of Janina Fisher too OutThere?
I too recognise those feelings of "I hate the world and the world hates me". They are very hard to manage, I thought I releasing them in a healthy way by telling her rather than holding them in but maybe she was having a day like me too and just reacted in that moment. She is not like my ex t so I was surprised by her reaction and wanted to see what other people thought.
My lashing out never really works the way I want it to and I really have to learn when it's appropriate and when not